Feb 5, 2026

Making customers feel understood without saying you understand them

Brilliant Commerce Episode 17

Making customers feel understood without saying you understand them

Lance Dobson has worked every angle of modern marketing — agency-side, inside Adobe Ad Cloud during the height of third-party bidding, and now at Shed, a telehealth weight loss company operating under strict healthcare compliance.

What surprised him most came at the end of that journey: the most constrained environment forced the best marketing discipline.

When privacy rules eliminate identity-based targeting, third-party retargeting, and algorithmic “enhancements,” you’re left with one lever that actually compounds — deeply understanding the problem your customer is trying to solve, and designing acquisition and UX around that reality.

In this conversation, Lance breaks down why privacy-first constraints often improve marketing fundamentals rather than limit them. He shares how Shed abandoned persona sprawl in favor of a simple problem–solution framework, why Adobe’s early third-party bidding advantage disappeared as platforms walled off data, and how search and SEO need to evolve as discovery shifts toward agent-driven answers.

For operators navigating competitive categories, tighter privacy environments, or diminishing returns from personalization theater, this episode offers a practical alternative: earn trust through clarity, relevance, and UX — not by telling customers you understand them.

Topics discussed:

  • Career learning arcs: agency breadth vs. brand depth vs. ad-tech backend exposure
  • Inside Adobe Ad Cloud: how third-party bidding once outperformed native platforms — and why that edge vanished
  • Why persona-heavy segmentation often leads to analysis paralysis
  • A problem–solution marketing framework that scales without invasive data
  • What healthcare compliance reveals about sustainable acquisition fundamentals
  • Building brand trust through intuitive UX and value exchange, not explicit privacy messaging
  • How SEO practitioners should adapt as search moves toward agent-driven discovery (AEO)
  • Why retention teams quietly outnumber acquisition teams four-to-one in most commerce orgs
  • Where AI replaces analytical and coding roles — and where humans remain non-negotiable
  • The hidden resourcing math behind retention, customer service, and lifecycle growth

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